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Love | How to Use the Power of Love

LOVE | How to use the power of love Hey, don't you want to know how to use the power of love in your life!
Almost everyone wants to know what is love and how to use it's power. I am sure you also want to know.

Is not it!"

But you can not get a satisfactory answer because you all experience it in different manner in your life and also feel the sensation of it. So you are confused as the theoretical knowledge and your practical experiences of love do not match. With this confusion how you can able to use the power of love?
Nothing to worry because today in this article LOVE | How to Use the Power of Love, I am going to give you a simple and true definition of love which will clear all your doubts and you will able to enjoy it and it's power properly.

First understand what is love...

What is love?
Like anger and fear LOVE is also a pure emotional feeling and energy. The only difference is anger and fear are not our desire, but love is our desire.  
This is why we can under…

How To Choose Life Partner?

How To Choose Life Partner

The happiness of life will be double and the problems will be half if you find a right life partner.
Everyone needs a Life Partner. Without a good life partner, it is almost impossible to enjoy each and every color of life. 
We are social beings and we live in a family in society. But to make a family we first need a good life partner. In this blog How To Choose Life Partner, I am going to tell you those important tips which will be very helpful to you when you will choose your life partner.


A life partner should be a person who able and willing to walk with you throughout your whole life. He/she must be with you in all walks of life like in good time, bad time, in the struggle, at that time when you are in any major physical, financial or psychological problem. Even he/she can be with you when you will going to die.

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Which qualities should be in your life partner

 1) Maturity

 Maturity should be given the first priority. It is because life is not a game of one day. There are thousands of days and not each day will be the same. 

There are a lot of challenges in life. And only a mature person can able to intelligently solve each and every problem. There are a lot of people in this world who are actually immature. 

Maturity does not come with age. It is not that if a person is in the age of 40s or 50s then he/she is mature. It is quite possible that the maturity of a 15 years boy is more than a 50 years old man/woman. Because maturity comes with experiences.

But not only experience makes you mature, it is actually the inside nature of yourself. The important thing is what you learn from your experiences. Let me explain to you. You can learn in two ways. One is negative another is positive.

Negative side >>> 

Let's take an example. Just imagine that somebody cheated you in love relation. And it hurt you a lot. Then you thought love is a bad thing. People love others to cheat them. Then you decided that next time you will not be serious for love and if it necessary then you also cheat others. It exactly happens in this world today. Therefore 90 out of 100 people cheat their lovers. Because of this negative learning.

Positive side >>> 

In another way if someone cheats you, then definitely you will be hurt.

But if you realize that when somebody cheats anyone how much it hurts himself or herself and if you are heartily a good person then you will give a commitment to yourself that you never hurt someone like that by any means. Your commitment to never cheat anyone. Is not it?" And why you able to do so because you feel that deadly pain as yourself. And you do not want to see anyone else in that pain. This is the positive learning. And the statistic will be totally changed. 90 out of 100 will be a great and happiest couple.

Notice that in both situations you have the same experience but the way of reacting to that is totally different.

Now tell me one thing, from both these persons whom you want to choose as your life partner? Of course, the positive person. Now here is the very int resting question- Do you want to get a life partner like that? Then answer is very simple my friend, "BE ONE to GET ONE".

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 2) Same Thinking >>> 

The next point to be noted is you both have the same thinking. A lot of times hared from people that one should marry the person who has opposite thinking with you. They said it will create a balance between both of you. But friends it is totally wrong. Tell me one thing if you and your partner pull a vehicle into two different ways then where it will be gone? I think it will be broken. Is not it!" Then how the vehicle of life moves foreword. Of course, it is impossible. 

But if you both have the same thinking, the same type of nature then the reaction of both of you in the different situations of life will be almost the same. 90% of tithe me your decisions match each other. Then the disputes and misunderstanding will definitely below. And there will be a 100% chance that you both successfully enjoy your whole life with each other. So always chose that person whose thinking and nature match you.

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3) Family background >>> 

Next important point to be noted isthe family background. We all are social beings. And we all have a huge impact on our family background. There is also some scientific reason behind it. If your partner is good but his or her family members are not good with you, then it is quite possible that it will hamper your relationship in the future. OK, it may be possible that your partner supports you but there will be a time when he/she ignores you if in future there will be some disputes between you and his/her family. This is one of the biggest reasons for divorces. Actually, it is scientific human behavior. We all have some unconscious psychological attachment with our blood relations.

So in such kind of case either you have to impress your partner's family or if you think it is not possible then I think it is good to do not chose that person as your partner. Ya if you love your partner too much and he /she is highly mature and able to handle these kinds of things then it's OK, you can move with him/her. But trust me it is a very serious problem and you have to be very cautious about it. Because it is a silent killer of your relationship.

4) Time >>> 

Time is the most important thing for choosing the right life partner. Because you get only a single chance in life to chose your dream partner. OK, I agree, in today's world, people do 2nd, 3rd or 4th marriage also. But the intensity is gone. It is human behavior. And this is equal in all countries, all religions and in all cultures. The intensity of the first relation is always unique. It can be possible to live your dream love life in your 2nd, 3rd or 4th marriage, but that requires very good luck. And in 99 cases out of 100, it is not possible. Therefore you have to be successful in your first try. That means you have to be very cautious. And remember here I am talking about the best of best means the dream life partner of life. Not about the normal marriage life or a normal life partner. Hope you understand what I am trying to say.

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But do not be hopeless if you can not able to choose the right life partner in your first try. Of course, your chances to get your dream partner is decrees but not end. In my future articles, I will tell you those tips and techniques by using them you can able to get your dream life partner.

Now come to the topic. So because people do not know the importance of timing to chose the best life partner they do the wrong things. Let me tell you what actually people do. They decide that now it's time to get a life partner. And they start to search for their life partner from the next day. They look him/her around them and after a few days, they chose one of them. Now they start to focus on that person to judge him/her. And suddenly that person sees him or her as the dream love of their life. And immediately they decide that it is time to propose him or her. They do so in the next week or in between one month. After propose and acceptance, they spend time with him/her. And finally, after a few days, they decide now time to marry. And also they do so. And all these totally processes are finished in between 3 to 4 months. In fa ew cases, this full process is finished in a one-year maximum. But after 2 to 3 years of marriage suddenly they realize that their choice was wrong. Then quarrel, fights begin. Finally, breakup or divorce has happened. Now they cry or depressed, doing some foolish things and after at least one year again they decide that it is time to chose a life partner and the full process repeats. And they never get their dream partner.

Reasons for not finding the right life partner

Now let's understand why it happens with almost 80% of people. And behind it, there is a very silly mistake. Let me explain to you.

When we go on shopping to buy a dress for any special occasion or for a party we spend 1 or 2 hours and even 4 hours maximum time. Just for a few clothes! For those clothes which we only use the next six months. But when we go to chose a person with whom we will spend our next 30 to 40 years, we only invest 3 to 4 months. Now please make me understand is it possible to know a person in just 4 months?" There will be a lot of different types of situations, a lot of different types of responsibilities and also different types of things will happen. And friends it is very important to know which type of features and characteristics your partner has to face all those situations. Because remember I told earlier that life is not a one day game. Then what to do!"

How to use the time to chose a better life partner
              OK, now let's discuss what is the solution. As one knows that after choosing a life partner he/she has to spend his/her whole life with him/her, so he/she should be very careful to select him/her and should be patience. Because as more time you look out a person as much you know him or her. Ya, I agree that to know anyone 100% is impossible. But trust me you can able to know someone 80%. And it is enough. Because except God nobody is perfect in this universe. 

               Then what we need to know someone 80%. That's simple! We have to spend more time to know the person whom we chose. According to mmy, it requires at least 2 years to know someone 70 to 80%. And you do not have to be predictable, you have to be very clear. Because here it is the question of your life. And it is not a jock. Google+
Life partner

               To understand the solution you have to understand something about Life. Is there some basic happenings in our life?" Yes, there is! We all grow, we all have to choose a career, we all have to build our career, we all have to choose a life partner in life, we all have to take care of our family and our children's, we all have to solve the problems occur in our life, we all will be old and weak a day and finally we will die a day. These are the basic happenings of everyone's life. And must be happened.
                 When we know that these will have mustily happened in our life, then why we do not have a proper plan for it. I have a proper plan for all the basic happenings of my life. I exactly know what to do and when to do for my life. I exactly know what kind of girl I want as my life partner. There is not any confusion in my mind. Therefore even at the most difficult time, I feel that everything is easy for me. My ideal, Sir Arnold Schwarzenegger, one of my great personalities of this world says "clarity is power". I really experience it in my life.
               So if you have also very clear planning about you all the basic happening of your life then everything will be easy, even choosing a life partner is too also easy. Let me give an example of how you can plan. According to me for girls, the best age for marriage is between 24 - 27 and for boys, it is 27 - 30. Of course behind this, there are some scientific reasons. In these pages, the male and female bodies are very perfect for marriage. So if you are a girl and decide to be married at the age of 26 then start searching for your perfect partner from the age of 21 or 22. Because you need a minimum of 2 to 3 years to know someone correctly. And you can do so by focusing on your career. You do not need to search for 24x7.
5) Acceptability >>> Yes, this is very important. Because you must have an acceptable attitude. Remember in this world nobody is perfect. By any means, you have to accept some weaknesses and bad things from your partner. But is on you how much you want and able to accept. If you have 0% acceptability then it is wrong. But if you have 100% acceptability then it is more wrong. Both are very dangerous for your life.
                 According to me, 20 to 25% acceptability is good for human beings. If you have less acceptability then you will not adjust with anyone. Everybody will be your enemy in this world. And if everybody will be your enemy then you never be happy in life anymore. But if you are a very innocent person and if you have 100% acceptability then it will finish you one day. Everybody will smother you. I am not talking about right or wrong. But it is a law of nature. So it may be quite possible that your partner also smothers you. So it is good to keep a balance between your acceptability and unacceptability nature and behavior of yourself.

              Friends, I am a person who has very advanced thinking. I never believe in myths and so-called social trends. I always believe scientific and practical proves. And trust me it makes my life easier every time. And by my blogs, I want to make everyone's life easier. If you follow me these 5 strategies then it is quite possible that you get your perfect life partner. Of course, patience is the key and takes decision intelligently. 

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  1. ohh Sushil !!
    awesome yr. tu ladkiyo k sath flirt kr kr k pura master ho gaya hai dud......

  2. Nice one. A lot of confusions are cleared in my mind.

    1. Hey, if u hv any confusion then talk with me directly yr. For best friends I m always free...

  3. Very lovely article sushil. It should be followed for better life.

  4. Wounderful. Fully followed.....

  5. Absolutely right. Before fixing a partner if we will take proper time then the success rate of that relationship will be increase.


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