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Love | How to Use the Power of Love

LOVE | How to use the power of love
Almost everyone wants to know what is love. I am sure you also want to know, is not it!" But they can not get a satisfactory answer because they all experience it in different manner in their life and also feel the sensation of it. So they are confused as the theoretical knowledge and their practical experience of love do not match.
But nothing to worry friends because today in this article LOVE I am going to give you a simple and true definition of love which will clear all your doubts and you will able to enjoy it and it's power properly.

What is love
Like anger and fear LOVE is also a pure emotional feeling. The only difference is anger and fear are not our desire, but love is our desire.  This is why we can understand anger and fear easily but we can not understand love easily. And it is because of our desire for it. We have our own imagination and believe for love based upon our desire for it so we can not see it as it is. 
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How To Choose Life Partner?

How To Choose Life Partner

              Every one needs a Life Partner. Without a good life partner it is almost impossible to enjoy the each and every color of life. We are social beings and we live in a family in the society. But to make a family we first need a good life partner. In this blog How To Choose Life Partner I am going to tell you those important tips which will be very helpful to you when you will chose  your life partner.

                                                     Life partner should be a person who able and willing to walk with you throughout your whole life. He/she must be with you in all walks of life like in good time, bad time,in struggle, at that time when you are in any major physical, financial or psychological problem. Even he/she can be with you when you will going to be die.

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Which qualities should be in your life partner

 1) Maturity >>> Maturity should be given the first priority. It is because life is not a game of one day. There are thousand of days and not each day will be same. There are a lot of challenges in life. And only a mature person can  able to intelligently solve each and every problem. There are a lot of people in this world who are actually immature. Maturity not comes with age. It is not that if a person is in the age of 40s or 50s then he/she is mature. It is quite possible that the maturity of a 15 years boy is more than a 50 years old man. Because maturity comes with experiences


                   But not only experience makes you mature, it is actually the inside nature of yourself. Important thing is what you learn from your experiences.                             Let me explain you. You can learn in two ways. One is negative another is positive.
 Negative side >>> Let's take an example. Just imagine that somebody cheated you in love relation. And it hurt you a lot. Then you thought love is a bad thing. People love others to cheat them. Then you decided that next time you will not be serious for love and if it necessary then you also cheat others. It is exactly happened in this world today. Therefore 90 out of 100 people cheats their lovers. Because of this negative learning.
Positive side >>> In other way if someone cheats you,then definitely you will be hurt. But if you realize that when somebody cheats anyone how much it hurts himself or herself and if you are heartily a good person then you will give a commitment to yourself that you never hurt someone like that by any means. You commitment to never cheat anyone. Is not it?" And why you able to do so because you feel that deadly pain as yourself. And you do not want to see anyone else in that pain. This is the positive learning. And the statistic will be totally changed. 90 out of 100 will be the great and happiest couple.
                Notice that in both situation you have the same experience but the way of react to that is totally different.
                     Now tell me one thing, from both these persons whom you want to chose as your life partner? Of course, the positive person. Now here is the very int resting question- Do you want to get a life partner like that? Then answer is very simple my friend, "BE ONE to GET ONE".

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 2) Same Thinking >>> The next point to be noted is you both have the same thinking. A lot of time I hared from people that one should merry with the person who have an opposite thinking thinking with you. They said it will be create a balance between both of you. But friends it is totally wrong. Tell me one thing if you and your partner pull a vehicle in to two different ways then where it will be go? I think it will be broken. Is not it!" Then how the vehicle of life moves foreword. Of course it is impossible. 

              But if you both have the same thinking, same type of nature then the reaction of both of you in the different situation of life will be almost same. 90% time your decisions match each others. Then the disputes and misunderstanding will definitely be low. And there will be 100% chance that you both successfully enjoy your whole life with each other. So always chose that person whose thinking and nature matches you.

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3) Family background >>> Next important point to be noted is family background. We all are social beings. And we all have a huge impact from our family background. There are also some scientific reason behind it. If your partner is good but his or her family members are not good with you, then it is quite possible that it will be hamper your relationship in future. OK it may be possible that your partner supports you but there will be a time when he/she ignores you if in future there will be some disputes between you and his/her family. This is one of the biggest reason for divorces. Actually it is a scientific human behaviour. We all have some unconscious psychological attachment with our blood relations.

              So in such kind of case either you have to impress your partner's family or if you think it is not possible then I think it is good to do not chose that person as your partner. Ya if you love your partner too much and he /she is highly mature and able to handle these kind of things then it's OK, you can move with him/her. But trust me it is a very serious problem and you have to be very cautious about it. Because it is a silent killer of your relationship.
4) Time >>> Time is the most important thing for choosing a right life partner. Because you get only a single chance in life to chose your dream partner. OK I agree, in today's world people do 2nd, 3rd or 4th marriage also. But the intensity is gone. It is a human behaviour. And this is equal in all countries, all religions and in all cultures. The intensity of first relation is always the unique. It can be possible to live your dream love life in your 2nd, 3rd or 4th marriage, but that requires a very good luck. And in 99 cases out of 100 it is not possible. Therefore you have to be successful in your first try. That means you have to be very cautious. And remember here I am talking about the best of best means the dream life partner of life. Not about the normal marriage life or normal life partner. Hope you understand what I am trying to say.
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              But do not be hopeless if you can not able to chose a right life partner in your first try. Of course your chances to get your dream partner is decrees but not end. In my future articles I will tell you those tips and techniques by using of them you can able to get your dream life partner.
               Now come to the topic. So because of people do not know the important of timing to chose the best life partner they do the wrong things. Let me tell you what actually people do. They decide that now it's the time to get a life partner. And they start to search their life partner from the next day. They look him/her around them and after a few days they chose one of them. Now they start to focus on that person to judge him/her. And suddenly that person seems him or her as the dream love of their life.And immediately they decide that it is time to propose him or her. They do so in next one week or in between one month. After propose and acceptance they spend time with him/her. And finally after few days they decide now time to marry. And also they do so. And all these totally process is finished in between 3 to 4 months. In few cases this full process is finished in one year maximum. But after 2 to 3 years of marriage suddenly they  realize that their choice was wrong. Then quarrel, fights begin. Finally breakup or divorce is happened. Now they cry or depressed, doing some foolish things and after at least one year again they decide that it is time to chose a life partner and the full process repeats. And they never get their dream partner.

Reasons for not finding a right life partner

           Now let's understand why it happens with almost 80% people. And behind it there is a very silly mistake. Let me explain you.

              When we go on a shopping to buy a dress for any special occasion or for a party we spend 1 or 2 hours and even 4 hours maximum time. Just for few clothes! For those clothes which we only use next six months. But when we go to chose a person with whom we will spend our next 30 to 40 years, we only invest 3 to 4 months. Now please make me understand is it possible to know a person in just 4 months?" There will be a lot of different type of situations, lot of different type of responsibilities and also different type of things will be happened. And friends it is very important to know which type of features and characteristics your partner has to face all those situations. Because remember I told earlier that life is not an one day game. Then what to do!"

How to use the time to chose a better life partner
              OK, now let's discus what is the solution. As one know that after choosing a life partner he/she have to spend his/her whole life with him/her, so he/she should be very careful for select him/her and should be patience. Because as more time you lookout a person as much you know him or her. Ya I agree that to know anyone 100% is impossible. But trust me you can able to know someone 80%. And it is enough. Because except God nobody is perfect in this universe. 

               Then what we need to know someone 80%. That's simple! We have to spend more time to know the person whom we chose. According to me it requires at least 2 years to know someone 70 to 80%. And you do not have to be predictable, you have to be very clear. Because here it is the question of your life. And it is not a jock. Google+
Life partner

               To understand the solution you have to understand something about Life. Is there some basic happenings in our life?" Yes,there is! We all grow, we all have to chose a career, we all have to build our career, we all have to chose a life partner in life, we all have to take care of our family and our children's, we all have to solve the problems occurs in our life, we all will be old and weak a day and finally we will be die a day. These are the basic happenings of every one's life. And must be happened.
                 When we know that these will be mustily happened in our life, then why we do not have a proper plan for it. I have a proper plan for all the basic happenings of my life. I exactly know what to do and when to do for my life. I exactly know what kind of girl I want as my life partner. There is not any confusion in my mind. Therefore even at the most difficult time I feel that every thing is easy for me. My ideal, Sir Arnold Schwarzenegger, one of my great personality of this world says "clarity is power". I really experience it in my life.
               So if you have also very clear planning about you all basic happening of your life then everything will be easy, even choosing a life partner is too also easy. Let me give an example how you can plan.According to me for girls the best age for marriage is between 24 - 27 and for boys it is 27 - 30. Of course behind this there are some scientific reasons. In these ages the male and female bodies are very perfect for marriage. So if you are a girl and decide to be marry at the age of 26 then start searching your perfect partner from the age of 21 or 22.Because you need minimum 2 to 3 years to know someone correctly. And you can do so with focusing on your career. You do not need to search 24x7.
5) Acceptability >>> Yes, this is very important. Because you must have an acceptable attitude. Remember in this world no body is perfect. By any means you have to accept some weakness and bad things of your partner. But is on you how much you want and able to accept. If you have 0% acceptability then it is wrong. But if you have 100% acceptability then it is more wrong. Both are very dangerous for your life.
                 According to me 20 to 25% acceptability is good for a human beings. If you have less acceptability then you will not adjust with anyone. Everybody will be your enemy in this world. And if everybody will be your enemy then you never be happy in life any more. But if you are a very innocent person and if you have 100% acceptability then it will finish you one day. Everybody will smother you. I am not talking about right or wrong. But it is a law of nature. So it may be quite possible that your partner also smother you. So it is good to keep a balance between your acceptability and unacceptability nature and behaviour of yourself.

              Friends I am a person who have a very advance thinking. I never believe in myths and so called social trends. I always believe scientific and practical proves. And trust me it makes my life easier every time. And by my blogs I want to make every one's life easier. If you follow my these 5 strategies then it is quite possible that you get your perfect life partner. Of course patience is the key and take decision intelligently. 

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  1. ohh Sushil !!
    awesome yr. tu ladkiyo k sath flirt kr kr k pura master ho gaya hai dud......

  2. Nice one. A lot of confusions are cleared in my mind.

    1. Hey, if u hv any confusion then talk with me directly yr. For best friends I m always free...

  3. Very lovely article sushil. It should be followed for better life.

  4. Wounderful. Fully followed.....

  5. Absolutely right. Before fixing a partner if we will take proper time then the success rate of that relationship will be increase.


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